Jessica Amos Meditation

“Out beyond the ideas of wrong doing and right doing, there is a field. I will meet you there.” -Rumi

Jessica Amos Meditation

GETTING STARTED

Venturing into the world of meditation isn’t glamorous or easy. It takes time, patience, and a willingness to sit with imperfections. I tried meditating on and off for years before a friend told me about the Oprah-Deepak 21 Day Meditation Challenge. It was just what I needed – a little guidance to get me started.

Worlds started to open up inside me. I discovered a band of rag-tag selves who were ready to start talking and taking up space in the world. My mind and body started up animated conversations that opened up deep self-awareness and compassion.

It doesn’t matter how you get started. It just matters that you start. Five minutes might be all you can handle at first. That’s okay. Go gently and seek guidance and support wherever you can. I look forward to exploring the great stillness with you!

These easy meditation tips will show you that you don’t have to be a master meditator or turn you life upside down to experience the benefits of meditation.1. START SMALL. Sit in silent meditation for 5 minutes once a day. You don’t have to clear your mind of thoughts. Just sit and let thoughts come and go. Voila! You’re meditating.2. GO GENTLY. Meditation is very forgiving and doesn’t require you to have it all figured out before you start. Maybe you’re not ready to sit in silence. That’s okay. Every time you are consciously kind and accepting of yourself your mindfulness grows. That’s all you really need.

3. BEFRIEND YOURSELF. Imagine you are sitting across from an old friend who happens to be you. Check in with yourself – How you’re feeling? What are you thinking? What do you need? What feels in alignment with your true nature? Listen to what you have to say. You are wise.

4. BREATHE. Imagine your body as a balloon you are filling with air. Carry every in-breath to a different part of your body, expanding it with air. With every out-breath release tension. You can do this anytime, anywhere, as often as you need.

5. BE WHERE YOU ARE. The past does not exist in the present moment. Nor does the future. The present moment is all that truly exists. When thoughts & emotions come up about the future or past, let go and focus on something happening in the present moment. Coming back to your breath or your feet on the ground are a good place to start.

6. WRITE IT DOWN. Get the inner noise out of your head and onto paper. This includes journaling, list-making, doodling, note taking, you name it! A writing practice clears tons of space for deeper listening and stillness.

7. GO FOR A WALK. You don’t have to sit in a dark room with candles and mantras to meditate. Take a nature walk and let the trees be your example. As you walk, let your mind wander and let your breath find it’s natural pace. Walk without aim or direction. It’s also a good opportunity to listen to your inner voice by pausing and asking your heart (and feet) what direction they feel like going in today.

8. LISTEN. Start easy by listening to free guided meditations online. You can also find guided meditations to download for when you are offline and want to meditate without distraction. If you are looking for an app, the Insight Timer is a great resource. If you want something more in-depth, go with the Oprah-Deepak 21-Day Meditation Challenge or the Stay with Yourself 8-Week Meditation Course.

9. READ. Find new ways of thinking and practicing meditation/mindfulness with a book on the subject. I suggest There Is Nothing Wrong With You by Cheri Huber, The Mindfulness Code by Donald Altman, and On Becoming an Alchemist by Catherine MacCoun

10. JOIN A COMMUNITY. Most cities are home to a myriad of yoga studios, meditation groups and mindfulness workshops. They each offer a unique perspective and approach to meditation. You can also find a community online through Facebook or an app like Insight Timer. Try them out. Perhaps one will resonate.